Love without sex is real!

Believe me the society which we live in has tagged the term `sex` to `love relationships` in every sense of it. Love in itself the feeling comes as a result of physical attraction but then there is more to it.

Brice and Rose tell us about how they met and how their relationship unfolds without them having any form of sexual contact. In this passionate story we will learn that actually there is something like love relationship without sex

Tell us a little bit about how you met?

We have been friends since childhood and have seen each other grow so we know ourselves very well. Growing up as adults we decided to go our separate ways and had the opportunity to test other grounds, but truth be told we always knew that we were meant to be together. Our relationship experienced a spark upon our return for holiday to our family homes for Christmas break and that’s where we discovered that there existed just more than friendship between us.

Love without sex so how do you live your relationship?

We are not an extraordinary couple, but we are two lovers who sat down in the very beginning of our love story and set the basis. We are working towards being together as husband and wife by next year God willing. Because of this we set to discover ourselves sexually on our honeymoon after the blessing of the elders.

What activities do lovers who don’t have sex carry out?

We are a couple like any other except for the fact that we avoid being in situations which may lure us to breach our original agreement. We go out on dinners, for long walks talking and planning how our family life will be and much more. We just restrain from any physical and intimate moments. We make sure we are never found in enclosed areas because at the end of the day we are all humans and have blood running through our veins.

Do you think about your sexual expectations if your partner does not meet up to your needs?

To be sincere there are nights as a man when I think about sex so much that all I want is to be in her arms and all that but then I think of the greater picture ahead. Of course, I hope to find sexual fulfillment in marriage that is why we have opted for pre-marriage counseling in church where we have a follow up session on how to meet each other’s need in marriage especially sexually. These is because there is no marriage if you are not comfortable with your partner and cannot meet up to his needs in bed. It is another ministry on its own in the home.

What advice will you give other youths like you?

Sex is a very good thing but also, it’s a pleasure which last only a short while for the most about one hour and which should not be desecrated at the start of the relationship. Let us keep to ourselves, avoid being in a rush, study our partners properly. I am sure it will be worth the wait.

Rhoda Abi

Journalist,consultant and highly-motivated communications Junky